Why you need to talk to yourself with the right words.

We live in Quebec, French speaking Canada. I love it. I love being called here. I have still not learnt the language yet & every year I am feeling the ineffectiveness of that more and more. It is restricting me from engaging in so many ways. Especially now my third daughter is in a huge French High School (and nailing it so well!)

Language matters. Deeply. It frames culture. It sets direction. It clarifies. It connects.

So does the language that you speak to yourself everyday. Certain words will evoke different responses from different people.

When i was coaching our Reset Global Group a few weeks ago, it was so fascinating to recognize that different words were needed to evoke action from them.

The outcome of this session was to action after they assessed. I told them to call this what makes most sense to them ....


To designate or treat something as more important than other things so that you can determine the order you give something attention.

This results in lists where one has to be on the top and others under it.


The worth and usefulness of something that aligns with a person's discernment of what is most important. This has more words like alignment so it anchors you to the NEED not just want conversation.